learn to say....NO...

assalamualaikum...w.b.t...

hmm, wut should i write for this post related to this topic...myself is also wondering...but, i do know something...that i can relate with it....

you know what, people sume same je...kat mane pon, bebile pon, siapa pun actually adalah sama...xda org yg berbeza kcuali kdudukan mereka di sisi Allah berdasarkan tahap keimanan mereka....so, basically, nk ckpnye sume org same = sume org pn ad hak yg sama...

kisah diri sy sendiri....i used to be hard in believing people...until one day, the person that is the most important person in my life commented my attitude...i was accusing that person so much and for everything...until at one point, where my attitudes pissed that person off so eventually that person scold me and tell me something that i wish to remember all the time...quoting the says : 

" even kalo kita susah nk percye kat org pon, bile dy ckp sesuatu, kita kene percye dgn ap yg dy ckp and ap pon reason dy...xkesah lar ap pn org tu buat, dy ad hak dan dy ad sebab sendiri knp dy buat mcm tu, even kalo dy menipu sekalipun, dy ad jwpn nya.."

so, kat cni, nk di jadi kan cerita, xkesah lar dy tu mcm mane tp kita xda hak atas diri dy...kita xtanggung dy mkn n kita xda ap2 yg kita sumbgkn pd dy...so, ap pn yg dy buat, dy ad hak...kita patot ckp NO pd diri sendiri bila tersedar, kita sedang masuk campur urusan org len...kalo nk difikirkan semula pon, mmg logik pon mcm tu ...sbb, xkesahlah dy tipu ke x, tu urusan dy dengan Allah....kalo dy tipu, Allah yg akan nilai...bukn kita..sbb tu bukan kerja kita...so, jgn nk menyibok...hehe..n, kn Allah sesungguhnya dah pesan :

"bersangka baiklah kamu"

so, kite kene la bersangka baik...sbb prasangka kita tu akan tentukan naseb kita...hehe...n, kepada sesiapa yg kirg keyakina diri tu, kita perlu berani untuk ckp NO bila kita rase hak kita terancam dan kita tak diberikan peluang hak yg sama dengan org lain....kita buat sesuatu pasti ad sebab dan musababnya,...kalo kita xnk ckp xnk, jgn hanya semata-mata kerana kawan atau ap pn jua alasan, kita sanggup say YES pd bnd yg sepatotnya kita say NO...jangan mcm tu, rugi diri sendiri...terutama bila bab rahsia...hihihi

ingatlah ye,...and again, ap pn yg sye tulis kat cni adalah demi mengingatkan org lain dan untuk diri sy sendiri...bersamalah kita saling meningatkan,,,demi kebaikan bersama... :))

peace, no war...!!! =D

sori la, post ni xda ayat...xpe, jgn riso, sbb hari ni nk masuk kn 2 post...(wink2)

so, sekian...wasSalam...